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09/18/2003 05:00 AM

After school activities still important

By: Brian Taffe

After school activities still important
Two weeks ago, a new study pointed out an old truth. When it comes to their kids, parents are worried. But these days that worry is less about how well they'll do on a math test, and more about what they'll do once math class is over.

Dr. Crystal Gips, Dean of Education at The College of Saint Rose said, "I think that every student can find some sort of interest."

Which, for many parents, is precisely the cause for concern. What will that interest be? And how do you make sure its a healthy one?

According to Doctor Gips, the reasons for worry are different now than just a few years ago. First, parents are, simply put, less likely to be home now when their kids get off the bus.

"Also, kids are more mobile these days and have access to complicated things like TV's and computers," said Gips.

And not every child is interested in soccer, or football.

Nancy Woehrmann, a concerned grandmother said, "He likes building things, putting them together. He likes to draw, and we encourage that."

Which Dr. Gips said is exactly what you need to do, even if your child doesn't show as much talent as they do interest. Be ready to support a whatever healthy interest they have, and to nurture it until they become good at it. There are always countless extracurricular activities, in which your child may just find a niche.

"I think they all share the benefit of social activity and learning to work in groups, develop leadership skills, and learning to be part of a team," said Gips.

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All of which can keep a child out of the sort of trouble most parents fear. But there is something to be said for overdoing it as well.

"Some children have so many activities, chosen by them and their parents that it really can take time and energy away from school," said Gips.

So, Dr. Gips said strike a balance that makes you and your child comfortable, and they'll appreciate it.

"If you raise your kids to say I don't want to make my mom and dad unhappy, that's more important than oh, I want to get in trouble," Gip explained.